One day your prince will come.
In the meantime, here are some things you can do to maximize your single life. Contrary to popular opinion, being single is not a sickness or curse, and marriage is not the panacea to all your woes. Marriage will not make you whole if you feel incomplete. The bible says, ”Two shall become one” not two halves shall become one, so you need to be fulfilled and complete as a single person or marriage might very well be your worst nightmare come true.
- Further your education
So you have a Bachelor’s degree, go get a Master’s degree or a certification. If you don’t feel like going back to a traditional school, read books, attend seminars and workshops. Highly productive and fulfilled people are eternal students, always seeking to learn more and be better in their spheres of influence.
- Travel the world
Visiting new places and interacting with different people opens up your mind to new horizons. It really does give you a fresh perspective on life. Plus, it makes you more interesting to converse with. And you know, travelling does not have to be ridiculously expensive. You could travel to other cities within Nigeria. Our dear country has many tourist havens waiting to be explored so hit the road-or book a flight. The world awaits you
- Learn a new language
There’s something to be said about being able to communicate in many languages. Not only does it expose you to new cultural and business opportunities, it makes you instantly more attractive. There’s a plethora of language apps to assist you. And if you’re not tech-savvy, you can do it the old fashioned way and enroll in a language class. Bonne chance!
- Adopt a healthier lifestyle
Health, they say, is wealth. Health is also beauty. There’s no better time to start working out, counting calories, juicing, smoothing- you get the gist- than now. And when Charming comes, he’ll find you, well, charming.
- Spend more time with God.
Now don’t go rolling your eyes at me. I believe in God and make no apologies about it. He’s our ever present help in times of need and has so many wonderful plans for us-if we’ll walk and work with Him. You see God knows what your destiny might be but only you can decide what your destiny will be.
So there you have it – the secrets of living happily and successfully single.